EARLY BIRDS
Tuesday, 30th October, 2007
EARLY BIRDS:
….will catch only worms!
Gen next thrives on’ all things fast - food & SUVs, rave parties, bold relationships, multiple dating, and virtual connectivity. What drives these youngsters? Career, big money, snappy fame and well, loads of pleasure! In this race for identity & yes, easy access to any information and any kind of connecting at a mouse click, innocence of the naive years is getting increasingly sacrificed. Ah well, the credit and debit of it - we get discussing.

Funds, fun, full-throttle!
A BA-II student is all set to shift to Mumbai after her graduation, for greener pastures: "I have to make big, quick bucks as soon as out of college. This city is too small for my dreams. I am planning to take admission in Subhash Ghai’s Whistling Woods Acting School & get started". Her take on ‘compromising’ on principals: "life is a series of compromises that we make to get further than others. To achieve something really big one needs to give in whatever life asks for & I am prepared for all eventualities provided I get my rewards"
Similarly, an LLB-I student quips, "our generation has easy access to almost everything right from cars, mobiles, TV, Internet to relationships & that sees many of us ‘exploring’ rather early. After experiencing it all, what is left to be achieved is money & comfort".
Analyzing the generation, Meenakshi Tanwar, a practising psychologist says, "Today, the youngsters experience almost everything right from sex, alcohol to parties early in life; earlier these were considered as adult pleasures. So that quenches their inquisitive nature and that is when they start focusing on their careers & money plays an important role in helping them make their decision. So strong is their will to be independent & fund their lifestyle themselves that they are ready to go to any length to achieve their goals and that comes easy to them because after one has experienced everything one is numbed to the experiences & that’s when the “so what” mentality crops up.
They seem to know themselves and are rather independent. Says a 1st year student: "Our generation is practical & knows where to compromise & where not to. Talk about the technicalities of making money or career choices & we are all game. Relationships matter to us but I guess the need to live a plush life, being independent & living life on our own terms makes us ruthless in our quest for a career which can earn us big bucks & fame". She admits that carving a distinct identity for themselves, separate from that of their parents or family also leads youngsters to go ahead in life without paying a thought to what they are actually losing in this race for materialistic pleasures.
Innocence Lost: Yes, that’s happening and fast! The quest for easy success & big bucks is making us selfish. But then even parents want their children to achieve success, money & fame in life and what is wrong if we want to fund our social life on our own & live a life of comfort? In search of greener pastures, we are slipping into the shoes of adults early in life & are doing everything that was done only by adults earlier. But that, in turn, is making us responsible & teaching us to grow up early. Experiencing things early in life lends us a very different perspective on its pleasures & pains".
Parents, a bit worried?
Many parents seem worried about a generation that makes its own rules. A mother of two college-going boys says: "This generation keeps its parents on toes because surprisingly it is curious about things right from childhood. I blame it on the increasing exposure to mass media". Agrees a retired lecturer, "I appreciate these smart youngsters because having seen & done everything that excites or interests them, they settle on certain rules in their life. The more the exposure the more the generation learns & gets clear on many decisions in life: But their perspective has to be clear & healthy; many times it happens that some youngsters lose track & get into the wrong things. Healthy perspectives are what is needed to guide the generation".



